Tuesday, January 25, 2022
By KHRISNA RUSSELL
Tribune Chief Reporter
krussell@tribunemedia.net
THE Bahamas Christian Council says laws relating to acts of domestic violence must be amended and penalties stiffened for perpetrators.
In a statement issued yesterday, BCC said the country had turned a blind eye to its social ills for too long and “the chicks have come home to roost” as the country is now in a state of crisis because of too many incidents of domestic violence.
As a result, the religious organisation said the nation is faced with a deterioration of the moral fabric of society.
The council called on all relevant stakeholders to join forces to eliminate and minimise domestic as well as all other acts of violence from society.
At the same time, it encouraged churches to sound the alarm from pulpits to open doors to those in need of counselling and to teach empathy, self-love, compassion and kindness.
Meanwhile Zonta Club of New Providence president Marisa Mason Smith said her organisation was concerned by recent events, adding there was a need for more community-based programmes that deal with the issue.
Their statements came days after the death of 21-year-old Heavenly Terveus, who was allegedly shot and killed in front of her newborn son on Saturday evening by her boyfriend moments before he reportedly tried to kill himself.
“Recently, our country has witnessed too many incidences of domestic violence that resulted in the tragic loss of life,” a statement posted on the BCC’s Facebook page said. “We are in a state of crisis and the only way we can make a change is if we all take a stand, not just to verbally express our displeasure but to take definitive action that will result in meaningful change.
“We must amend laws dealing with domestic violence and stiffen the penalties for perpetrators of these heinous crimes.
“We hereby appeal to all relevant stakeholders to join forces to do what is necessary to ensure that these and all other acts of violence and crimes are minimised and eliminated from our society.”
The statement also said: “We have turned a blind eye to the social ills plaguing our country for too long and the ‘chicks have come home to roost’. The deterioration of the moral fabric of our society is haunting us and creating ‘hell on earth’.
“We must reclaim our sons and daughters, our families, our communities and our country. There are a select few that are wreaking havoc and being a menace to our society, causing us to live in fear and anxiety, uncertain if we will be the next victim of a crime due to their callous attitudes and actions. We need to hold individuals accountable for their actions and we must do everything in our power to protect the most vulnerable among us.”
The council said it stood ready to lead the charge in reclaiming the nation and working in tandem with law enforcement to restore the country to law and order.
In remarks to The Tribune yesterday, Zonta’s president said there was help for victims available.
Ms Mason Smith said: “There is a need for more community-based programmes. I do believe that there is also a need for us to become more sensitised to each other and to get help when there is a need or we recognise that we cannot handle certain situations.
“We encourage that if you feel that you are in a hostile relationship to seek the necessary counselling guidance and to go to the police. Make a formal complaint and to follow through because the police are here to protect its citizenry and so we are very concerned and encourage persons to pay attention to their levels of emotions and to understand that there is help for you.
“We need to get back to family values. We need to recognise that we are all humans and everybody is entitled to be protected and safe in our environment and that one murder is just too many.
“I want to encourage us that if there is a need to get help go out and get the help that you need. Seek the right counselling, find out those persons that can help you. We know that when our relationships are being challenged that we need to understand that it’s not always going to end the way we expect it to end and so I want to say let us become more sensitive. I also encourage us to provide more programmes that would help young women with their self-esteem and self-worth. I encourage us all that we provide more national initiatives and conversations on building healthy relationships, healthy homes.
“. . .But there is help for you and we need to recognise that we need help and to do some introspection. Walk away, find ways to pray. Go to a church and get to that point where you know whatever is going on it can be reconciled and it can be corrected, but sometimes you know when the relationships are over, but in essence we need to ensure that we respect each other in our various places and spaces.”
Zonta is an international organisation that seeks to empower and advance the status of women through advocacy and service.
Comments
Sickened says...
Maybe the church can finally stand strong against this as well and go back to the new testament rules and start the eye for eye stuff again. If you beat your spouse then the parishioners get to beat the perp.
Posted 25 January 2022, 9:44 a.m. Suggest removal
Space says...
Marital rape though… A OK!… hypocrites
Posted 25 January 2022, 10:26 a.m. Suggest removal
mandela says...
The family values that the older generation enjoyed are looong gone and sadly will never return and be experienced by this generation and sadly it's only going to get worse.
Posted 25 January 2022, 10:40 a.m. Suggest removal
carltonr61 says...
On Blessed Sunday mornings The Gaming Houses catches the souls of our Christian nation. Most young people have list contact with churches after baptism so church really have no way of bridging that spirutual communication prayer divide. God must lead relationships but who is to tell them. Suicide is clinical. Again,who close is close to individuals know what when. Close friends know another and should have intervened. Guess they are sorry now. Some friends call 'Big Up' control and violence or getting dis' by ta gal not time to move on to higher grounds. It takes two to tango. Girls dies 'dis' poor righteous boys,choosing instead short sighted 'tings' of instant materialism. Even some churches teach the get rich sermon as primary for comfort over the reality of spiritual hard struggle. The ends of these missions are clear when houses are built upon sand and fantastic dreams of instant bragging rights to success.
Posted 25 January 2022, 10:57 a.m. Suggest removal
Sickened says...
I hear people asking how the crazy baby daddy was allowed in the house in the first place. Based on his history I think if her parents tried to stop him they would probably be dead as well. And then crazy guy's parents would have custody over the baby - and based on their failure in raising a sane child I'm thinking this worked out as best it could under the circumstances. Very sad.
Posted 25 January 2022, 12:55 p.m. Suggest removal
carltonr61 says...
Yes.
Posted 25 January 2022, 3:20 p.m. Suggest removal
John says...
The REALITY is Vio and violent crime and domestic violence are all in an upsurge. Not only here in this country, but worldwide. It appears that that the Covid-19 pandemic with its ensuing lockdowns and curfews and job losses and loss of social freedoms have apparently done something to the psyche of many. And the full fallout is yet to come. There will be many nmire ‘basket cases’ as the psychological overload will tax many beyond sanitity.. And yes, the church must have its day and it must play it’s important role in bringing back some sense of sanity and calm. Be a candle in a dark tunnel. Realize too, that many young men( and women) spent a lot of their curfew and lockdown time playing violent video games and watching violent movies. Some have no sense of hope or direction
Posted 25 January 2022, 6:24 p.m. Suggest removal
John says...
Then severe substance abuse must be added to the mix
Posted 25 January 2022, 6:26 p.m. Suggest removal
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