good one Tals

whistle away ,,,cuase /effect ,,,cuase/effect,,,my wife and i separated when our children were near adulthood ,,i have made mistakes and so have my children ..may the baby rest in peace ..Now when we start accepting illegitamacy and sex for reward as the norm the results will not be in our countrys favour ..as we are witness to daily ..

yadda yadda yadda , the studys bear out the facts that children of children in this age don,t do as well ,also children out of wedlock by and large do not do as well ..the fact is that we our making babies faster than any GDP can keep up and will have larger areas of crime and poverty ..you can not make children irresponsably forever and have a productive society ,,ie Haiti ,,i have 2 children that i raised and are now grown ..if you want to tell me a single mother of 6 from 4 different men stands the same chance of raising law abiding productive citizens, the facts don,t support it ,,i am sorry a child died , but this is not the 1920 the chances of raising a productive adult are minimized when the mother is young and unwed ..if babies having babies is so good how come our crime rate is through the roof ,our children graduate high school without the ability to read or write , the poor inner city areas are gang controlled war zones ,,,our illegitamacy rate is 80% we lack self control and conflict resolution ..to sum it up i don,t think i will take advice from either of these ,,i don,t accept the new norm ,,it is not working ,,with self rule comes responsability ,,sexually we show very little responsability ,,but if you want to accept the " new norm " and when bad results happen take personal responsability out of it go ahead ,,it is terrible a child was lost ,but many things could have taking place to avoid it ....80%of the young girls that are sexually active are involved in transactional sex,,sex for money etc ,,lets look at reality ..cuase /effect ...

of course we all live and learn from our mistakes ,,,the problem is there are no changes ,,in our country it is becoming the norm to be great grand parents by the age of 50 to 55 ,,that means three people had to give birth btw/ the age of 15 to 17 ,,i am not againts forgiveness but we use religion to forgive or blame sin on the devil and take very little responsibility ,,the father was alright when he got her pregnant ,and when she left the baby w/ him ,,no where does she say don,t have underage or unprotected sex ....

we blame the police and the state ,,how about blaming ourselves for being a moraless society ,and now these two want to give advice ,,wtf ,,how many people do you know talk about grandkids and they are only in there 30 ,s or have great grands and they are only in there 50,s .....

its hard to grow things on coral rocks ,the countrys w/ volcanic soil can grow things much cheaper on an economy of scale ,,we had a dairy ,,,we grew giving a type of cow that could live and thrive here free ,,the ones that weren,t theifed and eatin starved to death

the police and defence force are not some subset of Bahamians or imported from elsewhere ,,they are us ,picked from us ,,we as a country are becomeing moraless and rudderless ,,,,we all talk about God and christian nation but a good number of us would sell our soul for a couple of dollars,,

xenophobia is a big political seller ,,of the 8000 jobs at Atlantis there are 74 on work permits ..@ SP don,t be so quick to tell banks or tourist dollars to go elsewhere ,,we our under increaseing pressure from our neighbors both in the tourism sector and banking sector ,,there is sun ,sand and sea all around us and Cuba will open soon ,,and please don,t go on about farming these coral rocks ,,our neighbors to the south w/ volcanic soil do it on an economy of scale that whips our butts ,,,and if we don,t let in hatian labour whos going to work these farms ,,

please don,t interact w/ our guest that are 90% white ,,i have a feeling you would have problems being civil and would lasp into snide little comments just w/ in earshot about the wickedness of another race ,,dude your a xenophopic ,racist ,histronic cornacopia of infereority issues ,,,actually your so predictably its all most boring ,,,

i was talking about our discipline habits as Bahamians ,i did not inject any reference to colour or race Once again you seem to always turn things to white people or foriegners ,is your identity as a person soley dependent on racial issues , is the very core of you a ball of inferiority based on what another race does or doesn,t do ??